Saturday, 4 November 2017

Cultivating yourself is what "everyone needs"

Typically,the arrival of the weekend ,no sooner had the classes closed off than the guys make it easy to backpack and leave the hostel premises, we stand on a hope that we need to wait for more 2 days to make out fun as usual,the eccentric part approaches nearby as we tend to come closer to and the day soon arrives when the hope is proceeding to a turn where the converging lines(we meet eventually in such a sense) are not visible even after years of life.Days tend to approach closer and then we conclude that we are incognizant of enjoying every single moment in fun,we crave for others to get back into our life to lessen our peer pressures and make it easy to grow without emotional strains,thereby challenging our own self confidence which gets disrupted very soon. We spend a capacious time saying others that time has flown like a flash speed and the golden time vanishes.

Expectations and the need of connectivity never gets ended,things which give a sudden relief and comfort to us create the critical asymmetry and leads to drag ourselves in an unhygienic conditions .Time flies like anything and we don't find a limited time to isolate us for sometime and think cultivated about "What's going on ? and what would go on after some years ? Will the things remain as it is right now?or it may take a sharp turn! or will it stop moving a bit ahead or behind?Life is unpredictable but it may be molded only if we stick and configure it in our own dominion of productivity in an efficient way.People engage themselves in encounter/fight for developing an additional skills in them against the peer pressures and emotional dis-connectivity but they get failed ultimately and the obvious reason encloses in an ecosystem of unawareness in self psychology,how could one get connected to others if they are not connected to themselves first,a prevalent saying is common that "Love yourself first before someone else" but these terms are being accepted by many and implemented by few.

For some days i thought of imposing such a situation where i could easily reflect with others and it came up with this,Hope this makes sense toward positiveness.

Wednesday, 23 August 2017

Illusion and Action.

Why do we feel getting attached with someone? What's the need of developing superior feeling to the opposite? Relying on others for neutralizing the demand of our comfort either by mentally or romantically.The mostly observed trait is the rejection with the one who is being mostly connected with us.Few moment with the loved ones are superior and the emotions from inside blows out as a hurricane without blockage,without considering the adverse impacts thereafter.Human Psychology roams all around in the same jurisdiction of emotions.Imparting the beauty of the soul to the majority without being restricted to the one would be the great relaxation,which most of us generally forget during our loving times.

Reasons are mostly seen among us at some growing age that we tend to enclose the transparency with others which gradually lead to put our self into constrained environment,we normally loosen the connectivity with the world and slink with particular one to find emotional balance with the other. 

Emotions are due to hormones(chemical secretions in the blood stream),It is said that we are human because we have feelings,a non living object doesn't acquire this property,we may have feelings for a non living stuff as well and will they ever demand for hurting us..?                   "No",They won't.  At the stage when we are being loved,several hormones bring a dramatic change in our mood,likeness and hatred run one by one,both competes in order to compensate the loss of inhumanity trait.This is purely certain that we can't firmly fix into others emotions until we are familiar with the reality.Reality that one may change the mental decision easily without bringing any change in the involuntary part of the hormonal secretion.

A social animal "Human" is at destitution interlude stage,wanting for some other half to communicate,but meanwhile when the other half is being snatched away ,the emotional connectivity disrupts and mental hazards hit.

Depression at the instance bursts out the package of reality and we get to know later.Managing the harder time redirects us with the freakish time that we offered and did. Real maturity comes when we are aware of the impacts on us and society.

Loving the reality and progressing on the fact is the ultimate way that we usually miss and the wholesome of the past ruins the present and split us into parts. 

Congregating the parts together and building a concrete ,firm control on emotions,No one will ever be going to bring any nonsensical change in us.

Tuesday, 1 August 2017

Survival in life

A pillow crushed between chest and bed ,eye blurred and head pain due to unknown reasons,life in the world where the walls across are the evidences of the miseries that we feel deeply inside,observing the people that we have all around,the real pain is felt when we are sometimes been secluded and are made to realize the silence and the life.

Own build self esteem is valueless when capabilities do lack in us,among the crowd carrying abilities and labor with dedication..we slip backwards because of inner self-build abilities in our mind which is meaningless and absurd.

Love is powerful,it can ignite the feelings and can bring it in an achieved state,regardless of the fact where the love has been enforced.Love with inspiration and running towards abilities may be the one to prove it.

Stepping ahead in every aspects without building the basement is temporary,overthrown emotions with hollowness inside doesn't prove the success. "Success" is merely seven words but it might enlighten the darken soul of our life,for whom those who had brought themselves in the hurdles because of their success(which they never got again).Losers are those who fall behind without understanding what the success was meant for them. "Success" when is lost at one side is being uplifted on the other with the abilities that we acquire when we're in love(a vast term)( A dedication where heart and mind both loves to work simultaneously).

With the silent mind and the overthinking unstoppable brain,the thinking flow was going somewhere and  leading me to write about the wonderful  past that inspired me to write..but yes,the moment was not the same like before,discovering the life with potential in me was the love that I found besides her.

Saturday, 8 July 2017


Dreaming of love??? Many "Yes" from different mouth..well its okay to hear such sound! Yes love or another sense feeling of attraction with attachment or attachment with attraction, guessed ?? Both were written in two different ways!! Never mind,sometimes attraction persuades love while sometimes attachment,In some cases attachment happens after attraction is being imposed in some manner!!

Lets start the journey where we hit such lovable emotions,what are the things that are being  loved the most in case of children or a newbie...her mother the first!! Here the love is unconditional, not racist,and natural, the horror or breakup and the criteria of mistrust doesn't happen.The unlimited kindness,affection,love,pamper boosts the loving senses in a baby,they feel safe and comfortable,a simple hug from the mother washes off a lot of pains very faster!

Who said the love remains constant,let's check.!

Growing children and their hormones fluctuation day by day don't keep them stable,the love is being snatched by the human made things which attract them the most,basically toys and dolls!! Toys entertain while dolls are the source of virtual emotional exchange with entertainment.
Children remain in the real world while their thoughts roam in virtual world, a kid can treat himself as a driver and can run a toy,while a girl kid as a mother while the doll in her hand as her kid,basically the word love is being distributed among several toys and dolls.

Love isn't stable

Growing age and development of secondary sexual characters and brain development , in fact these biological terms relate to real life in some ways which i am taking into consideration,The toy and the dolls in most of the cases are being vanished and it is replaced by PC GAMES AND SMARTPHONES,LAPTOPS,ELECTRONIC ENTERTAINMENT Gadgets,while complete entertainment such as indoor sports and girlish games with dance and etc keeps on taking a prime place in such ages,love word is being distributed into many pieces and are being grasped by complete family with whom they are attached!

Teens Tolerate Tension!
 Teenage are the certain age where loads of crushes,attractions,attachment,feelings,emotions everything are meant to replace the virtual toys,here the toy is the natural entity in which it breaks as well and gives the pain to the other player.! Difference is that a toy can be bought after use but the real human toy cant be bought by money!

A boy has been taught that once the toy is broken or damaged the same toy can't be be used again it can't be fixed,here in reality if the real human toy is broken it can't be fixed even if it fixes it wont get the genuine built up! When the other toy had been given to the boy he again damaged it ,it had been 2 years after when his parents bought so many toys and the boy damaged and get the new and finally he was used to it and lost interest in the toy and began to discover his new area of interest in wrestling,bey-blade,cricket or etc,with the passage of time same toy game happens in the life where the toy game is replaced by real human love game!! Its a game in reality!!

During teenage there is an exhibition of toys and in most of the cases it doesn't last longer. A newly gifted expensive gift which was the dream of Harsh  had been broken the first day he got in his hands,he had been in great trauma he had committed himself that he wont break the toy again after and finally he had been gifted a new one,but to the surprise he was missing terribly the same toy because that variant was the only one in the store which was his eye loving stuff ,in the reality once the trust is broken its very hard to generate the same trust even if there are so many proposals in the way!!  Children took a longer time to  understand that these toys(material values) can be achieved in a number of times if the platform of success is achieved! Loving a person and roaming around that age group is a stuff which most of the people of that age groups do,but that's for a short term enjoyment with long term disappointment.


Thursday, 25 May 2017

Early separation from home arena.

Memorial Day:-

In every aspects of our life where we come across such a situation that makes us feel a bit different from the normal state being, some kind of extraordinary things that hit some impact on us and our mind captures the information related to it so well that we consider it as a memory. Though days of our life pass and it never returns back, as a human being it’s our duty to optimize the time  judiciously that we never regret that it had happened on a wastage basis. Memories leave deep imprint on our lives,because when we recall it we use to realize about those moments that were quite precious and we turn our present time to the past and start to extract memories in order to live a life in the past.

Some moments in my life is still memorable when I feel myself in that world.. I get intoxicated into that world thinking of those moments ,which can pour its ability through the memories. Memories can be kept physically with us or mentally stored in our brain. Memories redefine our world ,it lets us indoctrinate ourselves, achieving something good in our future may be gained through past experiences of our life and in such cases memories play a significant role . Life may take many twists and turn and it may sometimes put ourselves down, in such a circumstance we need to overcome it through recollecting past memories and letting this go with a strong inner soul through experiences from the past.

A smile that appears on our face while recapturing those moments and virtually living there is quite priceless.

I had been separated away from family from the early childhood days and was enrolled in a hostel far way from my living arena to complete my schooling ,as a child I was firmly attached with parents and obviously everyone remains, I had been completely dependent on them, a sense of responsibility , the way to adjust in those surroundings and socializing with them, the way to understand the goal of my life and walking towards it by developing the desire to adapt ourselves in any condition,I still remember those hardships while tackling the strictness and discipline being imposed by the wardens inside the hostel campus.

The most importantly my life was being limited to a fixed living world and at the same time it was growing into an other world ..away from parents and it has numerous memories ,yes the memories that bring those moments back into my head and I start locating my soul in those moment of my life which was harsh and painful.

During early days in my hostel life there came unforeseen burden that burs ted into my mind and used to be torrential for me,the sensitivity of my heart and feeling of being apart from our relatives and family at such an tender age was the reason and many a time the tears used to fall down from eyes and such things were such an embarrassing thing in my teenage years that I used to keep myself away from the mob and started to develop responsibilities and understanding the part of life.

My life was not easier and those moments can never be brought back to me until and unless those memories would never had been stored in my mind and heart,of course. It had been my early hobby to reflect out my feelings of joy,emotions,achievements,glory  inside my journal and that way of my life has brought me into some other phase of life where dealing with myself excluding the social surroundings doesn’t make such sense of deep mutilation from inside my soul because those memories were my breathtaking life experiences. Memories remain inside in each and every human beings all over the universe but the thing is to express while fetching positive changes in the life.

Hard days matter.!

Being ruining::

We have been brought up into this world with so many aspirations and hope,someone feels in some part of their lifetime that they have been ruined in the crowd,ruined in every perspective of life, gradually losing the so called built by himself the capabilities that has no significance in a better doing. Life isn't easy to spend with just putting into the position of superiority and extra potential approach.

Certain odd days come into force where there is a need to put forward our own strength in the ongoing world of struggle,the one who can put himself ahead is the one who gets into such condition of smartness.Life isn't easy..we make it easy to go, without understanding exactly what it is about. Sometimes what I have been come across is demanding help from others,yes they provide us help mentally by giving relief or by making us realize that we keep inside sort of extraordinary talents it totally fades when we realize that we have no longer been adjusted to that ongoing flow of talent . World around is not going to care others, personally been doing so much of world exploration I have been firmly realizing the fact that, Even I don't stand in such a position to help others getting come out from terrorism in life. Yes we are falling behind in the crowd,the crowd has having enormous power and will , showing off is a necessary evil seriously!! What if the running on world crushes,such kind of feelings versus the effect of getting suppressed because of our own faults struggle enormously.We fight to struggle when we fall down and get squashed by their feet.

The self intro-inspection dies to a critical stage and we can't do with it anything so as to regain our feelings,it grows up suddenly higher ..leading to the steep falling gradually at another point,we can't take the direction of the curve.. linear with time. world cares for a smart individual ahead in every prospective of life, we don't explore our potential.we don't converge so many matters of discussion,feelings into a point,mind needs to be focused life isn't easy,Being a person on platform as assumed by our-self is not the eternity,its not the prime strata of life that we have been achieved,No-one has the true potential of judging a person far better than us.We fall behind,people come asking situations and  don't help,we have been fighting in the world why we should take the responsibility of helping others.saying ones problems to others isn't the ultimate answer and solution.Practically we need to approach to the point where we lack,if we lack in physical energy then ours interior feelings should be tolerable and have some sage in such a way that we fight with our deficiency.

We have been observed as a lame person with no abilities in us.yes we exist having no abilities.and far superior to this we know this to the extreme level than others.People have been engaged in their work environment and they make such a way for their future,what if for the sake of mental relief that sort of some people get destroyed at some stage,we fall behind in vast space without being able to fetch emotions from others,how long a person would help,how long material values will satisfy ,more than a material value self emotions and aspirations should be  fulfilled. yes I am dying of my emotions getting thrown personally by me and getting no such positive results.At some points we may be discarded having no material values and self emotions to fight,no economic boom in reference to boost the life,no such hands to be provided to us.We are not one among the few which has been provided up with short term labor cum maximum outputs, no-one feels the non-flowing tears and why they should.